Ina received her
teaching certificate from Marshall College, Huntington,
WV in the spring of 1942. From a one room school house,
to a church basement preschool, to volunteering at Nitro
Elementary, she taught many students the love of
reading. Many would say she never retired until the day
of her death, November 18, 2020. Teaching children
filled ‘Miss Ina’s’ life with joy. She once said, “I
love them, and they know it.”
If not reading, you would find her tending her flower
garden or quilting while listening to classical music.
Ina joined St. Paul’s United Methodist church in Nitro,
WV in 1948. She wrote in her journal, “My church family
has stood by me and helped me in all my life. Life would
have been very poor without loving and serving God.”
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to St. Paul’s
United Methodist Church, 2004 20th St., Nitro, WV 25143
in her memory.
A graveside service will held on Saturday, November 21,
2020 at 11:00 am at Haven of Rest Memorial Gardens, Red
House, WV with Pastor Greg Markins officiating.
The family requests that all attending wear face masks
and practice safe social distancing.
Written by Meg “Margaret” Thomas Reid, February 24, 2010
Quotes are from Ina’s journal written for her
grandchildren.
Born:
April 22, 1920
Blaker’s Mill, WV
Parents: Ana Clarence Eades and Maude Lou Rookstool
Eades
Ina was the second oldest of nine children. They moved
from Blaker’s Mill to Monroe County about two miles from
downtown Alderson, WV when she was 3 years old.
“…a little house down in the hollow…four rooms,
unpainted wooden house. This is where we lived.”
Her parents were farmers and her father would sometimes
find employment on public works to keep the family fed
during the depression.
During her early years her mother home schooled her.
“…the county road was unpaved. It was a long and
dangerous walk. Mother felt it was to far for us to walk
alone.”
In the fall of 1927, Ina, 7 years old and her sister, 9
years old, started school in Alderson.
“As I recall Miss Margaret Huffman was our teacher
the first two years. I especially loved my fourth grade
teacher Mrs. Gladys Miller. That was the year I decided
I wanted to teach school. School was always easy for me.
I loved to read.”
She graduated from Alderson High School May 11, 1939 and
afterward:
“I went to work keeping house for my high school English
teacher. I made $3.00 per week. I stayed in her home
until I went to Huntington (WV) with Paul and Verna
McNeer to care for their two children. I made $15.00 a
month. In June of 1940 I enrolled in Marshall College. I
continued to live with the McNeers. I also worked in the
Registrar’s office to pay for my tuition and books. I
went to Marshall 2 years. In Sept. 1942 I started
teaching school at Heizer, WV.”
Ina’s first teaching job was in Heizer, WV. She taught
grades 1 through 4. Ina boarded with Mrs. Libby Jane
Buchannon Thomas.
“I remember the Sunday Paul and Verna McNeer took me
to Heizer to begin teaching. The road was long and
dusty. There were places in the creek with no bridges.
We just drove across. I thought we would never get
there…. Mrs. Thomas’ home was just below the school. …
She was a widow with a large family.”
It was here that Ina met her future husband Stanley. She
writes:
“Our first date was a walk along the country road.”
In November 1943 Stanley enlisted in the Marines and
they were not married until his return from service. He
fought in the South Pacific and was wounded there.
November 4, 1943 Ina writes: “My last night with
Stanley. I have put off thinking of it, but now it is
here, it seems so hard. Other people have stood it so I
suppose I can too.”
Stanley writes from California: “I don’t guess it will
be long ‘til I will be leaving here. The sooner we get
over, the sooner we get back, or some of us. There is
one thing we know, that we are all going over, but don’t
know how many are coming back.”
A year after Stanley’s discharge from the service, they
were married on Sunday, December 29, 1946 in Charleston,
WV.
Their first home was in Nitro. Ina writes:
“Since it hasn’t been long since the war ended,
everyone has to put their name in for appliances. We
ordered a stove from Sears and Stanley found a second
hand refrigerator. I have a hot plate to cook on until
the stove comes – about a month. I have two washtubs and
a clothesline for the laundry, and outside facilities
for a bathroom. This wasn’t so bad…”
Their second home was on 18th Street hill just above the
elementary school. It was in 1954 that they purchased a
home on Layne Avenue where they raised four children:
Robert, Jerry, Margaret and Charles.
“It proved to be a good place to raise children as
there was space to play.”
All four children graduated from Nitro High School and
then West Virginia University.
Ina has 7 grandchildren and 3 great grandchildren.
Ina writes of her work:
“I taught five years in the County schools in Putnam
County. In 1960 the University Women of Nitro decided to
start a Kindergarten, as WV did not have classes for
five year olds in public school. St. Paul’s United
Methodist Church gave permission for a room to be used.
Mary Lou Webb was hired as the teacher. After a short
time she decided she needed help. The Board asked me to
be the Assistant. I agreed with the understanding that
Charles could attend, as he was five that year.”
When the public school added kindergarten, the school
added nursery age children. Ina taught with Mary Lou
Webb and then Maxine Young for several years. With Mrs.
Young’s departure, Ina became the Director/teacher with
various aides assisting until her retirement in 1992 at
the age of 72.
“After retirement, I decided I needed something to
do, so I started as a volunteer at the Library. I have
been so fortunate in always having interesting work.
School with so many different children was always a joy.
It is fun in the Library. I get to talk to interesting
people and also to encourage children to read.“
Ina continues her love of reading and encourages others
by:
Being a volunteer at the Library. She was employed for
part of this time but when she was asked to learn a new
computer system after just learning the first, she
decided to turn her hours back to volunteer work. During
the month of January 2010 she volunteered 61 hours.
Ina is in charge of the United Methodist Women’s reading
program and is kindly known as “The Book Lady” as
opposed to the “bag” lady although she is always seen
with her bag of books encouraging others to read.
Ina volunteers at Nitro Elementary where she spends one
on one time with children assisting and encouraging them
with their reading.
Ina, now living on 19th, has a sunny enclosed front
porch. It is here that she has a few children’s toys and
books. Children in the neighborhood come by frequently
for a story time.
Ina has been a member of St. Paul’s United Methodist
Church since July 11, 1948. Church has always been an
important part of her life from early childhood. Even
after teaching all week she taught the three and four
year olds in Sunday school for many years.
She has held many offices on the Church Council and also
with the United Methodist Women. Being of service to
others is a very important part of Ina’s life. Along
with other activities such as the rummage sales and food
pantry she finds very satisfying ministry in visiting
those who cannot leave their homes or who are in nursing
homes, once a week.
Ina writes in her journal:
“My church family has stood by me and helped me all my
life. Life would have been very poor without loving and
serving God.”
John 12:26 “Whoever serves me must follow me, and where
I am there will my servant be also: Whoever serves me
the Father will honor.
Other important information about Ina:
Along with being strong in mind and spirit, Ina believes
in being strong in body. She walks everyday in her
church gym and exercises each week with her exercise
group at the Church of God. This is after her ritual of
exercise and Morning Prayer at home.
Quilting is also a love that Ina has shared with many.
Each of her children, grandchildren and now great
grandchildren have a quilt all hand stitched from their
mother, grand-mother and great grandmother. She has of
course found the time to quilt for her church bazaar and
others.
Letter writing is also a gift she has given to many. Her
children keep her well supplied with stationary and
stamps. She once said that phone calls were nice but
that she could read a letter over and over again. Her
family is most fortunate that she has kept many of the
letters she received from family and friends over the
years. They contain such a rich history of events and
emotions.
Flowers ~ Ina loves her flower garden. Tulips are her
favorite flower and if anyone goes by her home in the
spring you will see why.
A message from Margaret, Ina’s daughter:
I hope my writing has given you a glimmer of the “who”
of Ina Louise Eades Thomas.
For me, she is my beloved mother who has set the example
of how to live a good life. I have shared several quotes
from her journal that she wrote for her grandchildren
some years ago. Reading it as I wrote this I am again
amazed at her strength, character and wisdom. I am a
lucky woman indeed to be able to call her Mom and I
believe Nitro is lucky indeed to call her their citizen.
Mom ended her journal to her grandchildren on Sept. 27,
1998 with this scripture:
Paul says in Eph. 3: 16-17: “I pray that according to
the riches of his glory, he may grant that you may be
strengthened in your inner being with power through his
Spirit and that Christ may dwell in you hearts through
faith, as you are being rooted and grounded in love.”
Respectfully, Meg (Margaret) Reid February 24, 2010 |